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My wife has been encouraging me to stop wearing so much black so I wore brown tones this month. The picture above was taken in the lounge section of the room we were in Saturday night. That can be very cold being just blocks from the ocean. The high for the day was 61 and the low expected in mid 40’s which in Long Beach. I requested outside dinning because some in our group are very concerned with the Omicron. Should the the they have any questions the restaurant owner and his staff know all of us very well and can fill them in on our story. The crowd is getting younger as time goes on and they are typically more accepting of crossdressers. I have been there so many times I don’t even think about it because its predictable. Saturday night was the CHIC meeting at one of our regular places in Long Beach and we had a private room so crossdresser perception wasn’t possible. Our server was very attentive without being a bother and did not rush us to order or leave after dinner. I got several compliments on my outfit from women I encountered. I think their crossdresser perception of me was positive regardless if they approve. Not many women wear a black velvet suit with an embroidered flower on the jacket and high heels on a Friday night. Its safe to say everybody notices me because I dress for myself so its way different from casual California lifestyle. Those who reacted were positive and those who didn’t seemed indifferent going about their business. I got to see the public’s crossdresser perception of me. I sat in the chair pictured lower right side above on a busy Friday night. They offered to seat me early in the area that I had requested on my reservation but I declined.
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The hostesses took it all in stride and continued calling me Mam. That is notable in that I always use my male voice when dressed.
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I arrived by myself via UBER very early and was cheerfully greeted by the hostesses using all the proper pronouns. We went once before in November and it went well so we did it again this month. We did not really know what the crossdresser’s perception would be with the mainstream clientele conservative or not. Historically we have avoided it for many years because Orange County was a pretty conservative area and we felt uncomfortable going there. The Friday before our monthly CHIC meeting I went to dinner with my BFF Ashley at a restaurant in Orange County California. Crossdresser perceptions go both ways which is to say how we perceive those we interact with along with how they in turn perceive us.